Smile

Says a proverb, it takes seventeen muscles to smile and forty-three to Frown.
is lost if someone does not like or hard to smile. First remember his strength and the resulting positive effects; friendly impression, intimate, happy, relieved, and changing negative energy into positive. And second, a smile is charity lightly. Free, no need to pay and easier and lighter than the sullen or surly.

Even a thin smile, which seemed sincere, like a smile on Antonio Maria Lisa Gherardini - we know Mona Lisa - Leonardo da Vinci (1452-1519), still imply happiness. A team of researchers from the University of Amsterdam have measured the Mona Lisa's smile and get surprising results. Results from the analysis of emotion recognition software they developed to Leonardo's Mona Lisa painted in 1503 that stated that the smile of Francesco del Gioconda wife implies 83% feeling happy, 9% disgusted, 6% anxiety, and 2% angry. Even supposedly our impression of the Mona Lisa's smile will always differ as much as we view it. Hence a scientific study of the smile that smile of Leonardo's painting "more divine than human."

Imagine. The smile of a thin painting still implies so much happiness. So much mystery. What if the smile was genuine, sincere, and genuine smile, not a scratch painting invented?

A smile that seems as simple things that in fact is an indicator of the Big Shot. Besides very difficult to achieve, this one's smile is not "done", but "found." And he could not get in a short time immediately, but the achievement of a long process before. This is a smile "results".

There's an old saying, whoever said it first: if you cry when born and the people smiling, happy, then make the people cry when you die while you own smile. A maxim in all its meaning.

So obvious that there is a tremendous smile. May not have physical meaning smile, but also significant (a joy). The smile that is a representation of the life of someone who has lived all his life. When he could close his life with a charming smile, then it is the signs of a good end full of joy for the gift of God-given. the gold of life has been lived and will be lived one day in the life of the second; the eternal.

Frankly, we all expect it, right?

Friends as a gift

Understanding the nature of a friend in another perspective, of course subjectivity of personal experience. if there is justification or other views of friends, please add / correction text of this article. there who have read this article just translate the writing on the column of friends . so this article just to share for you.

As a gift, there is a nice wrapper and some bad packaging. A nice wrapper has beautiful face, or an attractive personality. Which have a face ugly wrapper ordinary, or normal personality. Or vice versa annoying and they bring to us. indeed a human trait.

As a gift, there is good content and there is bad contents. What good it had a soul so beautiful that we are fascinated when sharing feelings with him. Or when we stand to spend long hours, telling stories and entertaining each other, cried together and laughed together. We appreciate him and he appreciated us.

The contents of which have poor wounded souls. Once in the wounds so that her soul can no longer love, precisely because he/she does not feel the love in his/her life. Unfortunately we often catch him precisely the attitude of rejection, resentment, hatred, envy, pride, anger, and others.

We do not like the kind souls of this and try to avoid them. We do not know that it is not because they are basically bad. But the soul's inability to give love because he just needs our love. He requires our empathy, patience and courage us to listen to the deepest wounds of his soul.

How can we expect someone who hurt his knee running with us? How can we ask someone who is afraid of water to swim together? The wound on his knee and the fear of water to be healed, not berate them because they do not want to run or swim with us.

They're not going to say that the "knee" of their injuries or their "fear of water", they will say that they do not like running or they'll say swimming was boring and others. That's how they defend themselves.

They'll say "Dancing is not interesting" and would not say "I can not dance".
They'll say "No matches with me" and would not say "I need you with me".
They'll say "My friends have passed all" and would not say "I'm lonely".
They'll say "I was bad, who would stand with me" and would not say "I need to be accepted".
They will say "The story of my life boring" and would not say "I want to be heard".

They were all present for us, whether good or bad packaging, whether it good or bad. And do not be fooled by the packaging. Only when we meet the soul-with-soul, we know the real gift from God prepared for us.

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Ending of Love

I still remember a friend who wrote the article with the title "unrequited love". Yes, if you've talked about "LOVE", there will never be said, finally, because LOVE is a beautiful gift and make uneasy. Infiniti meaning / no limit to the described.

Love does not / has not avenged be painful .. (make a curious and fantasy), "if he wanted with me ..", "what he knows how I feel it?". Like it or not, we are forced to admit the truth. every day the same question that always comes up alternately.

When he showed the response to the "there", our hearts immediately "blink-blink" brilliant, we just felt that note .. "o, was right .. he also had the same feeling," "yeah, only I can focus like that .. blah blah blah". Again, if the one who makes us nervous cool in one day, without a command of the heart to say "hey you, I just kidding", "oh, she did not like me". This circle will always be spinning endlessly if we do not ask him directly to the (for fear of risks declined)

how naive only because of love on one person, we forget the love from the people who have given her one true love of parents, siblings, friends, teachers, etc..

Well, now how about unrequited Love? Is it like the picture of people with a broken heart because of their love unrequited? Unrequited love that is beautiful and happy?.

Love. Certainly the most beautiful gift that will never come to man, the creature that has reason and feelings. We also never planned to love someone. Love came unexpectedly, just flows and worst .. difficult to stop it.! At the time, the virus was pink and came to us bluss!! LOVE THAT was reciprocated! It really it beautiful?

Is it Happy? It was from some survey results, obtained conclusion "that unrequited love is not always as expected". SCIENCE, complemented by the honesty of conscience deposited by THE OWNER LOVE makes us nervous: scared adulterous heart and enjoy the varied emotion.

The days filled with hesitation .. when we are happy to meet with "him", at the same time a sense of "fear" present, when we miss him, at the same time we feel ashamed because we rarely remember the owner, GOD. Inner struggle will be very tiring if we are not trying to "defend" themselves.

Okay, for those who already have the ability and desire to marry the old man's blessing, they have a solution: MARRIED IMMEDIATELY!. Happy for the friends who are in an atmosphere like this.

Well, for those who do not have the ability? or who fell in love to another, or who have not sanctioned parents to get married, or more, who fell in love with my fiancee, husband or wife of someone else? Wow ... This is a Difficulty EXAM!, it does not mean God does not care about us, give gift and a trial, but instead we are the people who elected to prove the sincerity of his love. So?

Should we drift and drift off with the love of this moment? Come on guys! True love framed in marriage. In that frame we really have the right to express all the feelings of love are there to reach his love the Great. Married, or have proposed, only that option.

Do not be trapped quasi LOVE!! If the name of "Boy/Girl friend" present without being invited, immediately replace with the patient and busy themselves with activities that require concentration. Be very careful with my heart soared as it would very sick when crashes.

This paper only discourse to be the same reflection. Hopefully we can enjoy LOVE awarded him with deep gratitude, make us love Him more in every breath, trying to keep saying his name so as not to change the name of the "Boy/Girl friend".

Continue to enjoy just LOVE to expect a reply from the owners love of Love (One God), because only he never let us down.

YOUR FRIENDSHIP AND PROBLEMS

Often we hear that a friend or many friends is the most fun and happy. There's even a express happy and proud because someone has a friend from all the circles (of the average person (the commoners) to officials). So that wherever we are if it happens to get in trouble / difficulties would be easy to get help. Of course this depends on your own, how much you can build quality of friendship or companionship. Can be interpreted in the smaller, for example in the office environment. We make friends from the office boy, until the top leadership. Why not, it might be.At least after reading this article, you can see yourself,
how many of you have a network of friendships in the face of this earth. Origin
You not only have two friends, or even just one and not have?
Maybe you think no need so many friends during this, but who knows in the future? Whatever your opinion, has many people who pay attention and love you, is a thing that beautiful. Even for some people, friends with many people nutrients like live your life. Nothing wrong with listening again how the strategy regarding
your friendship, and what needs to be revised. If you have been feeling
have a lot of 'blemish', do not think, the sympathy of others no longer can
built.

Some of the things that affect your friendship matters:
• Caution is important; attention to the factors that determine What kind of quality you get up in friendship. How maybe someone will consider you a friend is important, if you never smile back. Of course it was only a small sample.Think about it, if you long enough to know this problem friends near you, give a helping hand (and heart) when they are difficult. Are you enough attention to the happy days colleagues near you. It could be from 10 wedding invitations, You only have to attend 1
• The promise is also important; you will not be happy if it was called as the
braggart. This is a powerful influence on your self worth. Once people have not believed the promises that came out of your mouth, then you have entered in the list of no importance him. Perhaps you are good-hearted, fun, but if not trusted, quality of friendship is not optimal is not it?
Revision is your attitude toward promise. Get used to promise something that
unusual but very probably carried out. You have to fight for deliver.
• You and Your Aura; This is important. There are many people who do not
realized that he did not make others feel comfortable in nearby. Perhaps this happens because you do not have the aura fun. Ask the people closest to him. Family,best friend's boyfriend or sticky. What attitude to yourself that
they were most annoyed. What also makes people reluctant to much talk with you. Who knows you do not realize that as long as you are a sharp, perhaps even going
win himself.
• Trust and Loyalty; you just hear the complaints of a friend, your next day's broadcast complaints as gossip the number of people. Trust and loyalty of its influence on the quality of your friendship. Sense of empathy, loyalty, its own demands. You do not have to approve any say your best friend. But at least you have the attitude that consistent. If you like the wind that followed you anywhere feel comfortable, you are nothing more than a seasonal friend.